Saturday, February 17, 2007

How Do You Attract The Right People Into Your Life?

This article is sequel to my earlier article titled: The Importance of People in Your Journey to Success,

This article would show you:
· What You Can Do To Attract The Right People Into Your Life For Maximum Leverage Of their Time And Knowledge;
· What You Must Not Do To Others If You Must Benefit From Their Knowledge and Experience
· And Many More...
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What brings the right people into your lifer? What makes people to be attracted and want to associate with you? How do you attract the right people into your life?

It is not sufficient that you realize the importance of others (people) in your life; but you must equally know how to attract the right people into your life. Of course, you won’t need everybody; however, getting the right people on board with you is very important. You must be able to attract and retain the right people that would contribute immensely and meaningfully into your life and success.

The question is how do you achieve this objective? The “how” is answered by the following:

Your Attitude Is Everything

How do you relate with and to people? Do you always snub or belittle them? Are you arrogant and rigid in your decisions and opinions? Do you disregard the opinion of other people without given it due consideration? Do you flagrantly display your knowledge and skills?

The presence of these vices (and many more) in your life would in the long run repel the right people that could uplift you. It is your attitude that would endear (or otherwise repel) others to you and it is only when people can conveniently come to you that they would be willing to share their knowledge with you. You must possess the right attitude to be able to learn and attract the right people into your life.

Be Prepared To Give

The level at which the right and relevant people are attracted into your life would be determined by the extent to which you shall willingly give out to them, selfishlessly. You must first give to people before they would be willing to give unto. Sow into people’s lives and you will reap bountifully in due season. Mind you, you will definitely reap the fruit of the kind of seed that you sow into people’s lives. Hence, there is need for you to sow or give out things of immense value to people? As human beings, we always gravitate towards any relationship or association that promises and or provide us with the kinds of benefits we are looking for.

In other words, you will only attract right people into your life when they perceived that you too ahs something to offer them, no matter how small such thing might be.

Most importantly, you must be prepared to give unconditionally, without clouding your mind with what you could possibly get in return, thus, you must give your best and would definitely get the best from others in due course.

Your Perception Of Others Counts

How do you see and judge others? Do you judge them by the physical appearance/possession? Do you write people off easily? Do oyu foresee the hidden potentials and gifts in other people? Many people have unknowingly chase away those people that would have contributed immensely to their lives and success due to poor judgment and perception.

Often time, the very people we overlook or neglect are the very people that own the key to our breakthrough and success in life.

Be At The Right Place

If you want to eat antelope, you won’t go to the sea or pond; you will have to be in the bush where antelopes reside. Also, if you want to fly with eagles; you have no business scratching the ground with turkeys! Similarly, in order to attract the right people into your life you must go to where they are. It could be club, online forums and particular associations. You must first determine the kind of people that are right for you, those that are in line with what you want to do. Thereafter, find out where they spend their time and ensure to be there.

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